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Former teacher, traveler, and now stepmom of 5. Finding adventures in both the epic and the everyday.

2017 in Review: Milestones and Mid-Life-List Memories

2017 was a year. They all are, aren’t they? But it was really quite a year. I turned 40 this year, and was determined to do it well. So I went through my mental bucket list, and of the things I hadn’t done yet, I made a note of which ones I really wanted to do before I turned 40. And did them, for the most part. They were fun! But a lot of the joy I’ve had this year was in the little things, as I reported in my last post. That being said, it’s time to review the big things.

Last year I started exploring some areas of Oregon I’d always wanted to see, like the John Day Fossil Beds National Monument, and adventuring in the Madras area with my friend Tracy who lived there. I also made new memories by revisiting Yosemite National Park with a sweet friend Keri that I’d met in Europe. This year I bought an annual National Park Pass. I think I barely broke even on the cost of it, but it was worth it to have the freedom to stop at any national park I wanted to!

I started in early June with Crater Lake National Park, which of course as an Oregonian I’ve seen many times. But this time it was with my friend Cindy, whom I worked with in Central Asia. She flew out from Colorado to visit and timed it with our friend Katie’s day-long layover in Portland. It was great to share my home state with these two! I’d been to visit Cindy in Colorado a couple years earlier, so it was a blast to be the host this time. When school got out, I went to the east side of Lake Washington for a training for work. I got to hang out with my grad school friend Mimi and eat a fancy dinner upstairs in a restaurant overlooking the waterfront. I also got to catch up with my high school youth group friend Jamie on that trip. Pictured below: Cindy and I put our feet up and relaxed by the Crater Lake Lodge overlooking the sapphire-blue lake.

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Then in July, I drove my friend Jessica’s kids through the northeast corner of Oregon to their house in Montana and vacationed with them all there. On the way, the kids and I saw the ruts of the Oregon Trail wagons near Baker City and stopped at Chief Joseph’s grave in the Wallowas. Then we drove along the Lewis & Clark Trail in Idaho, and finally reached their home near the Continental Divide in Montana just in time to set off a few fireworks for Independence Day. Jessica and the kids and I went to the north and east sides of Yellowstone and into the Grand Tetons, and later on a separate trip to Glacier National Park. I got to visit my high school friend Debbie on the east side of Glacier, too. All the parks were amazing. We’d all been to Yellowstone before so we skipped the geysers and saw the more remote parts of the park. The Grand Tetons make even a preschooler with an instant camera look like a professional photographer. I describe Glacier as the love-child of Yosemite and Zion National Parks. Maybe even more beautiful than both of them. Glacier fulfilled some of my bucket list dreams: seeing mountain goats in the wild and vast meadows of alpine wildflowers. Between these three parks, I think we experienced all the soul of the Rockies (if Rocky Mountain National Park in Colorado is the “heart” of them)! I saw more waterfalls, alpine lakes, and wildlife than I could keep track of. The first two days in Glacier had some very weak but cooling thunderstorms that unfortunately conditioned me for the summer to not be afraid of them. Bumming around the historical mining city of Butte was fun, too. We even took in a little bit of the renowned Montana Folk Festival there. We also did a day trip to Great Falls, which had some great sights along the way. Glacier was actually the last thing we did, and after I spent the day with Debbie in Many Glacier, I drove along the outside edge of the park and headed home, after stopping for lunch in the historic lodge at East Glacier Park. I stayed the night in Spokane and went home from there, back to my kitty Arwen. It was such an amazing trip! Oh, and Jessica’s family bought me my own mountain goat! IMG_5067 Doesn’t Celeborn the Stuffed Goat look real? But the best part was just getting to spend time with them all. Jessica is one of the truest friends I’ve ever had, and it was wonderful to enjoy some of God’s most beautiful creation with her.

My next big trip this year was to the Southwest. I drove with two of my Salem writer friends Diana and Debby through California (with a pit stop at Burney Falls, which was even more spectacular than my childhood postcard collection showed) to a faith-based fantasy/sci-fi writers conference in Reno, where we met up with another writer friend Tracy and her artist husband Denny. I went with the latter two to Virginia City, and with Denny I went to downtown Reno while the others had a conference session to go to (I only paid for a guest conference fee instead of the whole fee). I had agreed to go to this conference for several reasons: getting to spend time with my writer friends who had been such a support for me through my divorce in Salem, getting to learn about writing with a focus on fantasy/sci-fi, and last but not least, my first cosplay experience (also on my bucket list). Oh, and a nerf gun war. That was never on a bucket list of mine, but would have been if I’d thought of it. The conference exceeded all my expectations, mainly because the keynote speaker, Ted Dekker, spoke right to my soul. It was as if Jesus was right there telling me He loves me and has great plans for me. It wasn’t just what the speaker was saying. It was something much deeper that I can’t explain. I just felt it in my soul.

 

But the conference was only the first part of that trip. From Reno, my friends all went on vacations with their husbands who met them there, and I met up with my friend Jas who was there visiting a friend. We drove to her house in Phoenix, stopping for some fun adventures along the way. (We pause this blog post for a brief announcement: it is midnight and fireworks are sounding off all around me with neighbors shouting “Happy New Year!”). While driving nearly the entire length of Nevada, we stopped at a gimmicky store by Area 51 and got pictures of us as aliens. We stayed the night in a suburb of Las Vegas where our high school friend Katie (who did the best rendition of Fruma Sarah in our production of Fiddler on the Roof) lives with her family. It was great to reconnect! Then we took a detour on the last leg to Phoenix so we could see the London Bridge. Yup, the one from the song, that is no longer in England but is in southwest Arizona. It’s a small world! There was even a British couple visiting in the little tourist “English city” below the bridge. Once we rested up in Phoenix, we spent the day north of there, exploring some Native American cliff dwellings and Sedona. Montezuma’s Castle and Montezuma’s Well National Monuments are misnamed, of course, but still fascinating to see! And Sedona… well, we’ll just say that it lives up to all the hype, and then some. I actually liked Sedona much more than Moab (granted, I only got to drive through Moab briefly on my way through later this trip). We drove through the rock formations and visited the serene Chapel of the Holy Cross, and ate Chinese food. Then we hiked up Bell Rock, which is supposed to be one of the best “vortex” spots. Well, I couldn’t feel any more special energy than what I felt with the storm that rolled in. And learned the hard way that storms in Arizona are not to be taken lightly. We kept saying “We should probably head down now… ooh, look! Double rainbow!” as the storm rolled in quietly. Then the heavens opened up and dumped right on us. We had to run and slide down the rock, which became a giant waterslide from flash floods (Hey! Seeing a flash flood was kind of a secret bucket list wish!), trying to stay low to the ground because the lightning was right on top of us, too. At last we made it to the trailhead, where a concerned local couple was about to head up to find us. We sat out the rest of the storm in my now-drenched car, letting our adrenaline subside. The rest of my stay in the Phoenix area was less eventful but also fun: Jas’ homemade dinner and climbing around the rock formations at Papago Park. Jas and I have been adventuring together since we were in high school, and I’m so grateful we’re still close even though we live in different states!

Now for the last leg of that epic trip. This was my chance to drive some of the famous portions of Route 66, which I’d been wanting to do ever since learning the song in high school jazz choir circles. From Jas’ house, I went north to Flagstaff, and then east on I-40, taking Historic Route 66 whenever I could. I didn’t see much that was exciting in Flagstaff or Winona (couldn’t see anything of Winona, but it’s in the song), but the hike in Walnut Canyon National Monument was fantastic. The canyon itself was worth the trip, but there were so many well-preserved cliff dwellings all along the hike that you could even walk into! Then I stopped in Winslow, which had a great visitor’s center with free stuff, including a Route 66 passport to get stamped along the way. A young businessman and I traded cameras to get photos of ourselves “Standin’ on a Corner” and I got a milkshake at a soda fountain that used to be a bank. Next stop was Holbrook. All I did there was stop at the kitchy Wigwam Hotel, which made me feel like I was in the movie “Cars.” My plan from there was to drive into New Mexico (just to say I did) and then double-back in the morning for Monument Valley, but the last big stop in Arizona’s Route 66 was Petrified Forest National Park. I’d meant to only stop there briefly, but I was taken aback by this gem in the National Park system. I ended up hiking to the valley floor from the historic inn in the Painted Desert. I sat overlooking the vast expanse ahead of me, of stark, colorful desert. Never had a felt so wonderfully alone in the universe, with only God’s presence (and a wild hare) to keep me company. And I was prepared to be disappointed that I didn’t have time to drive down to the petrified wood portion of the park, but there was quite a lot of it in this section! Breathtaking. So I didn’t get as far into New Mexico as I’d hoped. I stayed the night in my car in the parking lot of the Gallup Walmart to save money. From there, I drove north to Shiprock, taking in the sunrise and and Navajo people alongside the road. I ate breakfast at a local fast-food joint that served Indian breakfast tacos along with the usual fast-food fare, and I was the only non-Native person in there. It was all older folks, meeting up with friends for coffee and good conversation. Then I drove up into the Four Corners region of Colorado. I thought I had time to see the cliff dwellings at Mesa Verde, but only got partway through the park. I was on a schedule: to get to my cousin’s house in the Salt Lake City area for dinner. So I doubled back and drove into Utah. I stopped in Arches National Park for literally 15 minutes, which was much more interesting than the hour I spent in Mesa Verde not getting to the cliff dwellings. I didn’t see any arches, but the rock formations were great, and I had gotten out earlier to climb up the roadside Winslow Arch. I got to my cousin Julie’s house almost on time, and had a wonderful dinner and drinks there. It was great to connect with her because I’d never really gotten to know her, since she’s from Nebraska. She recommended that I stop at Shoshone Falls in Idaho on the way home, which was well worth the trip.

 

This year brought a couple more big bucket-list items: my first complete solar eclipse and my first tattoo. I experienced “The Great American Eclipse” event by going up to Woodburn with my cousins Eric and Chrissy, staying the night in Hubbard with my stepsister Tammy and her family, and watching the actual eclipse in Gervais with my friend Karen AND  MY BEST FRIEND TIM  (her husband; inside joke) and their daughter. Then my friend Sarah got a tattoo for my 40th birthday. Actually I got two: a real one (a compass rose, of course) on my upper arm and some added freckles to make the Orion the Hunter constellation on my wrist. Also for my birthday, I got to see my first professional soccer game! Mom took me to see the Portland Thorns, the women’s sister team to the Timbers. It was a blast! We got to watch part of it with my friend Holli and her family, and the Thorns won! Mom also took me to a Ducks v. Cornhuskers (American) football game because her friend that was supposed to go got sick. Pictured below: the Eclipse! Note that Arwen didn’t come with me to see the eclipse; I just had to get a pic of her wearing my eclipse glasses that I got at Yellowstone.

I also did a lot of other fun things this year, like hiking all the Ridgeline Trails in South Eugene, biking all the way across town along the river bike trail, going to Wildlife Safari with my cousins, spending time with my relatives that came to visit, hiking to Belknap Crater (a really cool little volcano) at the top of Old McKenzie Pass with my friend Tracey, and hiking Sweet Creek Falls trail with my mom. I also did some fun Eugene traditions like going to the Scandinavian Festival with my friend Charli and her family (their first time) the Lane County Fair with my mom and brother, and waterfall day hikes with my friend Rachel (the first one was quite a misadventure but we made it fun!). This fall and winter holiday season have also been fun, including a “German Christmas Day” in Mt. Angel and a Christmas Market with my friend Rainie who used to live in Germany, visiting and hosting family, and playing in the snow with Jessica and her family when they came to Oregon for Christmas. Oh hey, I had one more bucket list adventure there! We met up at Diamond Lake to go tubing in the snowy hills, and I walked a little ways out onto the frozen lake! So cool! I’m sure I’m near WordPress’ photo limit so these fun adventures just get mentioned, but I’ll try to post pics of them sometime. At least on Facebook.

Pretty sure this is my longest blog post ever, but it was an epic year. Hey, you only turn 40 once, and I figured I might as well have fun with my mid-life crisis. Many of my friends are turning 40 this year too, and it’s been great to celebrate this milestone with them! Happy New Year! This next year will much much more mellow (as I save up for some big goals and work to pay off debt), but hopefully just as fun with friends and family.

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Thankful

I had a Thanksgiving blog post half-written a week before Thanksgiving. Yes, I’m thankful for a lot this year! So much that I never finished writing that post. Oh, well. Keep moving forward. That’s what one of my students had written on something of his and shown to me. He struggles with motivation, so he was very proud of himself!

It is not always easy at school. There’s teen drama, behavior issues, and lots of squirrelly-ness. Plus I’ve been on the hugest learning curve of my life with the new positions I have at the school. But we have our fun times, too. Tuesday was our first blood drive of the year. I was nervous because it was my first time coordinating one. But the kids did so great! They and two of the staff filled all the slots, and then even more kids wanted to donate! And for many of them, it was their first time. It was so neat to watch them go from nervousness beforehand to pride in themselves for enduring scary needles in order to help save lives. Can’t wait till the next one!

Then yesterday in my geography class, we did an activity that I’d found in the Facebook teacher group for this class. It went so well! The kids had a great time. I’ll include a couple of the links we used here:

http://greatlanguagegame.com/play/                                                                                                (I got 400 points on this one! See if you can beat me!)

And https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2014/upshot/dialect-quiz-map.html?_r=1        The quiz wasn’t too far off from guessing where I’m from!

But the thing that cracked me up the most that day happened just before class. Earlier, at lunch, they had been brainstorming fundraising ideas, and asked us staff members if we’d be willing to get pies in the face. But it still took me a little while to figure out what was happening the next period, when one of the 11th grade girls announced, “Ma’am, you’re the smallest staff member here!” I politely informed her that no, Lieutenant _____   is shorter than me. “No, Ma’am, I mean that you’re the SMALLEST one.” I stared at her blankly some more, because I’m quite sure there are other staff members smaller than me (albeit not very many). “I mean, Ma’am, that you’d be the easiest one to tape to the wall!” More blank stares from me, until it dawned on me that I was being offered up as a sacrifice for a fundraiser. Yup, that’s exactly what was happening. I’m still not sure exactly what will happen after I’m taped to a wall. Wet sponges thrown at me? Pie? (better be pumpkin!) The things we do for kids… I’m grateful for these fun moments with my students.

But I’m also looking forward to Christmas break. I don’t have any grand travel plans for it (I did plenty of that this summer and never wrote about it on here; sorry!). Just relaxing and spending time with friends and family (and working some, I’ll admit). I am so grateful for all of them and for the community I have here. And for this beautiful area that looks different in every season. I can go hiking in woods with a five minute walk or drive! But living close to friends and family is still the best part of where I live.

So… that’s sort of my Thanksgiving post. Yes, there is much chaos and sadness in the world right now. Fires in California. Winter weather causing accidents in other parts of the country. War in so many places in the world. Depression. Cancer. Stress. But life still goes on. There is so much to live for, and I pray that my friends and students who struggle with depression can hold onto that hope, and learn to take joy in the present as well.

Keep moving forward, my friends. It’s worth it.

 

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Are we there yet?

Okay, I gotta go on a mock rant. Today was crazy! It’s like the students know we’re close to the end of the year or something! They are so checked out. And then, last night, I was all pumped to grade papers while watching The Big Game (USA v. Mexico soccer in Mexico City), when I discovered that with all the TV channels I get with my internet package, I didn’t get the game! I thought I got Univision and could watch it in Spanish, but evidently I only get Telemundo (which had “How to Train Your Dragon” dubbed in Spanish on, and that’s cool, but not nearly as epic as The Big Game). First world probs! Seriously. I mean, the developing world probably had that game on the local networks on their TVs.  Because the REST OF THE WORLD knows that soccer is awesome. Oh, well. I got on the internet later and found out the game was a tie. Go USA! I mean Mexico! I mean USA!

Okay, so all this pent-up “anger” really just means that I am SO ready for school to be out! I love my students. But I need a break. And a massive change of scenery. And I’m going to get it! I’m going to be doing some different things at my school next year, and I’m excited for that. For one of those things, I’ll be getting trained in a couple weeks in Seattle, and stay with my grad school best friend. After that, I get to take my Southern Oregon best friend’s children home to where they live now in Montana and hang out with all of them there. So excited to be Road Trip Auntie for a couple days! I’ll stop for scenic vistas and roadside curiosities (okay, ice cream) and listen to cries of “Are we there yet?” and “He crossed the line!” from the back seat. Then I’ll get some time to relax (and prepare for the new classes/stuff for next year) at home and bum around Oregon for a couple weeks. And hang out with friends and family here. Later on, I’ll be driving Salem friends to a writer’s conference in Nevada and visiting my high school best friend there. And after that, who knows? The sky (okay, the budget and the calendar)’s the limit. Last but not least, I’ll visit friends in Madras and see the eclipse before returning to work. So ready for adventures! Plus, this summer I get to host my friend’s daughter and show her around her future college town. Super excited for that.

So if I can just survive the next couple weeks (with no other parts falling off my new-ish car), I’m good to go. Next week we’ll have our last few days of classes and then our Iron Cadet and Iron Company competition, which are really fun. Then I’ll wish my students a wonderful summer, cry for the ones who have tough home lives and don’t look forward to summer, shake the hands of my seniors that are off to the world of adulthood whether they’re ready or not, and know that I’ll miss them all. But for now, I’ll just ask: Are we there yet?

 

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Secondary School Silliness

What do Rosie the Riveter, Disney princesses, a spontaneous trip to Russia, and Marie Antoinette have in common? Okay, nothing really, but if I put them together, they almost sound like they belong in my journeys-of-women blog. But really, they’re just fun silly stories from recent weeks in my classroom. I had planned for my next blog post to be more literary/historical, but I’ve had all these fun little stories saving up lately, and I figure, why not?

So the first one. This one is from a several weeks ago, in the middle of studying WWII in my 10th grade history class. My school being a military-style (charter) school, we have strict dress code policies. Underneath our green uniform, we are supposed to wear a plain white or grey shirt, or our official school tee shirt. But one day I brought up WWII propaganda, and we’d been looking at the changes in society for women and African Americans, and I showed them the Rosie the Riveter sticker on my laptop. So one of the girls says something like “Hey, Ma’am! I have her, too!” and pulls up her uniform blouse to reveal a forbidden out-of-regulation tee shirt. With none other than Rosie the Riveter on the front! She happily posed for a photo (I told her I wouldn’t get her face in it or turn her in to Sergeant Major for dress-code violation; how could I with such perfect timing?). Rosie the Riveter

I’m sure I have more stories from the weeks after this, but the only ones I can remember now are from more recently. One day last week, most of my 11th grade U.S. Government class was out due to a field trip or sicknesses. Three boys remained. One of them commented that he has a hard time concentrating when it’s too quiet. So while they were working, I played my “writing music” playlist on itunes. This includes the Return of the King soundtrack. This spawned a Hobbit movie discussion, of course, but in the course of conversation about movie soundtracks, I also mentioned how Disney used classical music in its movies, such as Tchaikovsky’s Sleeping Beauty ballet. The one 12th grade boy said he couldn’t wait to see the live action Beauty and the Beast, and the other two boys joined in a passionate discussion of Disney princess movies. For real. Teenagers crack me up.

The next one is from a few days ago. One of the boys in the other 10th grade history class came up to my desk when they were all working independently on an assignment. He pointed to my globe, and said “Okay Ma’am, I’m going to spin it, and wherever my finger lands, you have to go there next.” I responded with a resounding “I like this game!” And guess where he landed? Just west of the Ural Mountains. Russia, here I come!

The last story is from a couple days ago. I still owe my freshmen treats (pretzels or something) for this, for being good sports. During the government class, which is 2nd period, one of the boys glanced longingly at his backpack. “I can smell my banana bread, Ma’am!” He’d baked it himself  the night before, and couldn’t wait until lunchtime to eat it. I remarked that I wished I’d brought something like that for the following class, freshman Global Studies, to walk around the classroom with and torment them by the aroma. For the sake of demonstrating how the starving peasants felt about the extravagant lifestyles of the royalty during the French Revolution, of course. My boy gleefully offered a corner of his bread. “Anything to torture freshmen, Ma’am!” It worked. I had their full attention. And now I need to “Let them eat cake!” or at least some pretzels or crackers, as soon as I get to the grocery store.

Today was a nice Friday. My Cold War intro lecture wrapped up early, so I showed the sophomores some of my Berlin Wall photos and have a little free time at the end. In Government, we finished taking notes on foreign policy early too, so I let them hang out for the last part of the class or catch up on missing work, which led to many fun conversations with them. I need to do that more often. It’s amazing what they’ll tell you when they don’t feel that they have to tell you anything. My home company 11th grade kids generously donated to a pizza party surprise for my NCO (teaching partner, whose last day is next week). One of them took back a bit of his money to give to another student so he could buy his new corporal hat (he just got promoted in our awards ceremony yesterday). They don’t always make the best choices, but my kiddos are precious!

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Spring Break Stay-cation 2017

Hello friends and faithful readers! Trying to do better at writing more often this year. So I’m writing to you about my amazing adventures this week. Okay, so they’re not super epic. But I’m writing anyway.

For context, let’s recount the spring breaks I’ve had as a licensed teacher:

  • 2014: Kabul Stay-cation. Stayed on the compound with my friend the English teacher, my friend the PE teacher’s parents, and some of our administration.
  • 2015: Willamette Valley Stay-cation. I had just gotten the job here at the military school, so I stayed home to make lesson plans, and settle in a bit to life back in the States.
  • 2016: Madras Vacation. I got to visit/house-sit for friends there, and travel the area and beyond.

Which brings us to 2017: Staying here in my hometown where I now live in the Willamette Valley. I didn’t really go anywhere winter break, but I’ll be traveling a lot this summer, so I looked forward to just staying and catching up with life. I’ve been working on projects in my apartment, like framing artwork and maps I’ve picked up in my travels. Mom and I were tourists in Eugene for a day by touring the Cascades Raptor Center. It was fun to see Peregrine falcons and Red-tailed hawks and other beautiful birds! On Wednesday I got to spend time with my cousin and her adorable kids. And of course I’ve been catching up on all the normal life stuff that gets put off during school weeks, and getting out in the sunshine by foot or bike pedal on every sun break. So it’s been a nice relaxing week.

But best of all, I got a cat. I got it approved with the property managers, and I picked her out at the pet shelter yesterday. She’s a very pretty little girl cat. Sweet but playful, which is what I need.

I named her Arwen. I’m not entirely sure why. Her name at the shelter was Fiona, which I assumed was after the princess in Shrek. She’s mostly white but with black patches, including on her head and back. So that combined with her princess name reminded me of Arwen from LOTR for some reason. Then I had fun with it and gave her a bunch more princess names that start with A, in the manner of princesses in books by authors like Gail Carson Levine. So she is now Arwen Avarella Aminatu Ariana Mielle. I almost added Eilonwy, too. I may yet. But for short, I call her Arwen the Adorable, or Miss Mielle (after a character from a book I’m currently reading). Yeah, I know I’m a nerd!

She was a bit shy when I brought her home, hiding under the bed a lot. But she has been coming out and exploring a lot more today. She loves to flop over for a tummy rub, as well as walk by where I’m sitting and get her incredibly fluffy tail in my face.

Yes, she’ll be a great little friend to sit with me as I write (or grade papers).

That’s my Spring Break 2017! Yeah, I know it’s not the most epic ever, but it’s what I needed. And who knows? There’s two more days of it, most of which will be spent grading and planning, but there’s just enough time to have a mini-adventure if one comes along.

Be watching for a return to my more literary blog posts, where I recount the adventures and journeys of women (historical or fictional).

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Christmas Update 2016

Hello out there in blog-reader-land! I know it’s been a while. Frankly, I’m shocked that WordPress hasn’t canceled my blog. But it still exists, so I may as well use it! Here’s the latest in the chronicles of my adventures.

My last couple posts were written when I had just started working at the military school in the Oregon town I grew up in. I meant to write at least a Christmas newsletter last year, but settled for posting photos from the whole year on my Facebook page. I’ll probably do that again, because I don’t want to share very personal photos for the whole world to see. But I’ll also try to catch everyone up here today.

As for work (school), I decided to stay at the military academy. That first spring, I taught remedial 9th grade math and English. The next school year, I taught 9th/10th grade social studies, remedial 9th grade math, and a journalism elective class. Sadly, this school year’s schedule didn’t allow me to keep the journalism class. But I’m still teaching 9th, 10th, and now 11th grade social studies, as well as a credit recovery class in the computer lab which allows me to tutor the students in math and other subjects from their online recovery courses. It’s been neat to watch the students grow up from squirrely freshmen and sophomores to (somewhat!) mature juniors and seniors. I’ve learned a lot about military lifestyle and experiences from the school and my coworkers. I can safely say I appreciate the service and sacrifice of veterans more now. And there are some fun experiences I wouldn’t have in other schools, like learning to march correctly to a cadence for local parades, and FTX (our military-style version of outdoors school). I love FTX! We hold it in the late spring at a Boy Scout camp, and I’ve had a great time camping out with the 9th grade girls both years. This fall, I got to see my students in action as we volunteered at the local Highland Games. It rained on us, but the kids had great attitudes, and got accolades from all the vendors and festival organizers! I feel very blessed to get to know the students and grow in friendships with my coworkers at this school. I will always miss my ISK (my school in Central Asia) coworkers and students, but I’m thankful for Facebook and email to keep in touch with most of them.

Of course, I’ve done a bit of traveling since I last wrote, too. After seeing my ISK coworkers (and my awesome Uncle Gary and Aunt Kathy and friend Jas) in Pennsylvania in February 2015, I used my airline miles and credit to attend weddings of my coworkers from overseas. The first was in Florida in May, for my friends Kristin and Nathan, who now teach in SE Asia. The next two weddings were in Michigan in June. It was a blessing to see all of them get married, and get to catch up with my ISK family each time! And fun to sightsee with them, like beach time on Lake Michigan and shopping in Amish country with my 2nd ISK principal. My other big trip that year was a drive to Seattle to visit my grad school friend Mimi, with a side trip to Vancouver BC to see a friend I had known from the expat community in Central Asia.

This year (2016) has also brought some fun journeys. In the spring, I got to visit my ISK friend Cindy in Colorado, although it was still winter there! Beautiful, though. We saw Garden of the Gods and some mountain towns near Boulder. For spring break and again after school ended for the summer, I got to house-sit for and visit friends Tracey and her husband Jay, who worked at my current school my first year, and who live in lovely Central Oregon. Together we hiked in the snow on Mt. Hood, drove up the Deschutes River, and hunted for geodes (aka Thundereggs; round rocks filled inside with crystal) at Richardson Rock Ranch. On my own, I used their house as a base camp to go see the John Day Fossil Beds National Monument. I hiked all three sites in one day. Breathtaking vistas, ancient fossils, and amazing rock formations made the drive so worth it! Later this last summer, I drove to California to meet up with a Czech friend that I met in Prague. She had never been to Yosemite, and I happily agreed to take her there. The last time I had gone was in winter, which was beautiful, but limited the places to go. So Keri and I got to hike to Vernal Fall, and drive to Glacier Point, which was probably one of the most epic views I have ever seen. And that says a lot, because I’ve been blessed to see some amazing ones in this world. I’ll try to include photos. I also got to visit my friend Elly in San Francisco (she’s much closer than the first time I visited her in her home country of Germany!), and drive back through Napa Valley and the Redwoods coast. Later in the summer, Jas came out from Pennsylvania for her family reunion, and I got to go up to Central Washington state for it with her and her aunt and uncle. I love summer!

As far as writing goes, I haven’t done any of my own (unless lesson plans count). But I have had some of my students participate in National Novel Writing Month, so at least I’m helping pass on a literary tradition. One of my writer friends is now publishing a novel for the first time, so be sure to watch for Calliope Jones books on Amazon soon! They’re great!

I’ve had some fun times with family this year, too. My mom and I met up with my stepsister and her teenage daughter to enjoy the crowds, I mean the tulips, at the Woodburn Wooden Shoe Festival. My brother made me an epic wall decor piece in the shape of a medallion from a cartoon we watched as kids. I’ve also enjoyed spending time with one set of cousins while I lived with her mother-in-law (and now have my own cute apartment! Many thanks to the wonderful people who let me live with them before that!), and am attending a church now where another set goes. In sadder news, I had three aunts pass away this least year or so, and one cousin just two days ago. I’m grateful that I had gotten to see two of them not too long before they died. Before my mom left to be with her brother, she and my stepdad had an impromptu Christmas breakfast/coffee with my brother and me. We’ll get to have a fun dinner on Christmas Eve with my dad and my stepmom, too. I’m so thankful for the family I have. And friends in this community that I grew up in but hadn’t lived in as an adult (old friends, friends from my new school, new friends from the church I went to last year, and new friends from my new church). And for my thoughtful boyfriend, too. (Just had to slip that in there to leave you all wondering!)

Well, I think that about sums up a lot, at least what I’m willing to share publicly. Thank you all for your friendship and support over the years! I hope you all are doing well and enjoying the holidays.

Merry Christmas!

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Cover Reveal: When Sparrows Fall

Hello, friends!

Well, now that I’m back in the United States, I’m hoping to get back to the literary side of my blog: chronicling the journeys of women (historical or literary ones). So for this edition of the Compass Rose Queen, I’m very excited to introduce a novel written by my friend, Diana! It will be coming out soon, and for now, the cover of the book has been officially released by the publisher.

Several years ago, I was lucky enough to join a critique group of four women who are professional writers (and later added another friend of mine). We would meet once a month to read ten pages of our writing and have it critiqued by the group. I learned a lot from them. And got to read their novels, ten pages at a time! The group is still going, though I have moved on to other locations. But they are still one of the most encouraging groups of ladies I know. I really enjoyed getting to know Diana through her writing and her friendship. I’ll let the author bio below tell you more about her.

Diana’s book is an historical novel, about a girl for whom everything changes all at once. She has a new family, a new home (if I remember right- it’s been a while since I first joined the critique group!), and must embark on a journey of faith as she discovers people on a secret sojourn next door. Here is the official blurb for the book:

After her mother’s Mennonite church-arranged marriage to her recently deceased father’s bitter brother, thirteen-year-old Susanna Stutzman faces a crisis of faith. Everything seems to be going wrong in her life. As if her new father’s nasty temper isn’t enough, Cousin Mary, now her stepsister, hates her, as does her new teacher. When Susanna’s discovery of a strange nighttime visitor at her mysterious neighbor’s home leads to the unveiling of secrets, Susanna is forced to make a choice between her conscience and her community. 

And here is the official author bio (I believe both the blurb and the author bio can be found on LEAP’s website):

Diana has been a voracious reader since age nine when she discovered The Chronicles of Narnia after a librarian handed her the first book in the series. She didn’t really want to read it, but she took it to be polite and then couldn’t put it down. She always has three or four books on her bedside table and a sizable stack waiting to be read in her home library. She collects Newbery and Caldecott award-winning books and is running out of bookshelf space in her home.

She credits hay fever for her interest in writing stories. Unable to play outside without misery from the age of ten, she spent half of every summer vacation inside reading and writing stories until the pollen count dwindled. Her stories always included a nice girl, a mean girl, and a love interest. She was less interested in story-telling than she was in living vicariously through her protagonist, who always put the mean girl in her place and got the guy.

During the school year, Diana serves as a high school English teacher and academic support coordinator. She originally chose to teach older students because she thought they would be able to manage their own bodily fluids better than little kids would. She’s discovered she was mostly right about that, and as a bonus, she finds teenagers a blast to spend her days with.

She lives in the Pacific Northwest with her husband Alan and youngest son Isaac. Her adult son Mitchell lives only a four-hour drive away, but Diana wishes it was four minutes instead. She has two cats. Her Maine Coon named Mister Mistoffelees weighs twenty pounds. He is as sweet as he is huge. The other is a feisty Siamese-mix named Sabrina. 

If you want to know more about the book or Diana’s writing, here is her website: dianablackstone.com

And now what you’ve been waiting for: the official cover, revealed!

When Sparrows Fall

When Sparrows Fall

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Back in the USA

Hello, world!

I have some exciting news for the literary fans out there, that allows me to brag on a friend. But I’ll save that for the next post so it can have a post all to itself. For now, I figure I’d better update those of you who aren’t on Facebook (or who are, but read my blog and wonder where I am now).

Since my last post, I explored a bunch more of Germany (namely Koln and Berlin, as well as a day in Dresden and hiking in Saxon Switzerland), spent way more time in the Czech Republic than I’d planned (which is not a bad thing- I loved it there!), and ended up coming back to the States because it was no longer safe for the school I taught at to be open in its location in Central Asia. It was really sad to not go back there. It was my home for the last couple years, and I miss my students dearly. But life goes on, and so must I.

Soon after I landed in North America, I went to a retreat in Pennsylvania where I got to spend time with my American coworkers, and also got to visit my longtime friend and my aunt and uncle in Gettysburg. My friend took me to Baltimore, and we explored more historical sites there.

This last week I began subbing in one of the school districts I used to work in as an instructional assistant before I got my teaching license. And tomorrow I begin working at a new school for the rest of this school year. I’m very thankful for these opportunities! And very excited.

Well, that’s all for now, but I wanted to update any of you who hadn’t caught up with me already on Facebook or email. I think for now I’ll just post a photo of Saxon Switzerland, because you’ve all probably seen photos of the rest of the places I went, but may not have heard of that scenic little corner of Eastern Germany. Enjoy! And happy travels, whether it’s to somewhere historical, exotic, relaxing, or a nice walk in the evening sunshine.

Saxon Switzerland

Saxon Switzerland

Bastei Bridge

Bastei Bridge

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Christmas Newsletter 2014

Hello friends and family,

I’m obviously not using my blog much anymore, but I thought I’d use it at least to write my Christmas newsletter this year. Especially since I’m not home to mail it out to anyone. So, without further adieu, Merry Christmas from Germany!

2014 has been an amazing year. Very difficult in many ways. But I have learned a lot about teaching, myself, and life itself. I have grown and matured in some ways, and (I hope) my faith is deeper than it was before. And yes, according to Christmas newsletter tradition, I’ll brag for a bit that I’ve been to some of the most amazing places on Earth this year!

Since I last wrote from Bahrain, I spent a fun summer reconnecting with friends and family in the States. There I travelled to California and Utah to visit good friends and got to hike on the Central California coast, camped in Montana, and saw geology at work in the geysers of Yellowstone and the dramatic canyon of Zion National Park. I also spent lovely time with friends and family at the Southern Oregon coastline and other lovely Oregon sights.

This fall, while living again in Central Asia, I visited friends in Qatar and enjoyed exploring ruins and the beach there for the Eid holiday. I also flew with friends to Bamiyan and saw where the giant Buddhas once stood, and hiked to an ancient fort that was attacked by Genghis Khan. (Yeah, pretty amazing! This history nerd was beyond giddy.)

And now I’m in Europe. My friend and I flew into Prague and enjoyed the Christmas market in the Old Town there. We’ve been staying since with a friend in Germany and taking in the culture and scenery here. Today we visited the city where my parents were stationed, and I lived the first three months of my life. It was lovely! And happens to be the birthplace of the Brothers Grimm. Yep, that must be why I love fairy tales so much.

As for teaching, this new year has been challenging but incredibly fun. Geometry is my most challenging class content-wise. Proofs and justifications are just as difficult as they were when I was in high school! And teaching 10th graders just doesn’t come as naturally to me as the middle-school age. But now we’re into the triangles unit, and having more fun with that. This year, my one non-math class is history, which is blessedly within my content areas that I’m licensed for (8th grade science was crazy hard last year!). So I’m teaching 8th grade U.S. History to Central Asian kids. Definitely a challenge, but a fun one! These kids are really intrigued by American history, so it’s been a lot of fun to teach them. They ask excellent discussion questions and are getting really good at seeing the history from different perspectives, which was one of my goals. My 7th and 8th grade math classes have been a lot of fun, too. Behavior is definitely the biggest challenge there, but I adore them.

Those of you who know where I teach specifically can guess that it’s been a difficult year based on the news you may have seen. It has been hard. But I love the people there and the culture and especially the kids, and it has been a blessing to be there with them in hard times.

Well, that’s pretty much 2014 in a nutshell (that’s an American idiom; I find myself explaining idioms a lot to my students this year!). I sincerely hope that you have all had a wonderful year, will have a wonderful Christmas, and a happy New Year.

Santa Barbara

Santa Barbara

Yellowstone Falls

Yellowstone Falls

Ruins on the Persian Gulf

Ruins on the Persian Gulf

Red Fort

Red Fort

Old Town Prague

Old Town Prague

Merry Christmas from Heidelberg Castle

Merry Christmas from Heidelberg Castle

Christmas Market in Gengebach

Christmas Market in Gengenbach

Kaiserslautern

Kaiserslautern

The Brothers Grimm in my first hometown

The Brothers Grimm in my first hometown

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Unwind

I’ve always been a somewhat tightly wound personality, and presumably am even more so when teaching. Even when I was an instructional assistant, it took me about a week into summer to unwind and relax. Now with all the intense experiences I had this last school year plus cultural transition back into Western society and family life, I’ve been trying to be more intentional about the debreifing/unwinding (and I’d have said “decompressing” but looked it up and it’s a fairly technical diving term) process. But I don’t want to slip into a depression from feeling purposeless in the summer, so I’ve also tried to be intentional about volunteering my time and services for the benefit of the local community.

So here’s where I’m at and what I’ve been doing with my time. My last post was written while I was on a somewhat spur-of-the-moment “Transition Vacation” in Bahrain. It’s a nice island kingdom in the Middle East, which has the religious culture I’m used to in Central Asia, but is a little more Westernized and touristy, so I could relax a bit (didn’t have to wear a head covering in the street), see the sights, and wander the city safely. It was great. I don’t think I thought about very much the whole time. Just let my brain rest and enjoy life.

Now I’ve been back in the States for a week. I’ve spent some time with family (and am looking forward to lots more time throughout the summer), helped out with yardwork at my mom’s house, been a cabin leader for a kids’ retreat at the camp I worked at as a teen/college student, helped make props for the local university’s production of Alice in Wonderland, took the dog for a nice quiet day at the coast, nearly caught up on Once Upon a Time episodes, and ridden mom’s bike around the lake and river areas here. And of course worked on some personal things, including getting set up for some official debriefing/counseling.

All that sounds like a lot, but don’t worry, I’ve had plenty of time sitting around the house and reading (or playing on Facebook). Not sure how much it’s all helping, but I don’t feel like I’ve been stuck in the “funk” I felt during Christmas vacation here. I feel a lot more balanced. And I’m sure the counselor will help me debrief some of the experiences of the school year in Central Asia.

I’ve had some time to reflect on some of the ways I’ve changed this year. My focus and purpose in life is changing. I’m working on becoming less self-centered (so I feel a bit strange writing blog posts that are all about me, but I guess it’s part of the processing experience and people keep asking me how I am so I guess it’s okay).  I’ve changed in some funny ways too: Because Wii “Just Dance” is one of our favorite forms of entertainment on the compound, I’ve found myself listening to the pop stations much more than usual in my car and caught myself singing and dancing along with a One Direction song (this rock ‘n’ roller has never liked boy bands!). From where I’ve been living, I feel like I’m more brave but also more paranoid. I really can’t answer the question “Do you feel safe there?” yet. But I know I’m teaching where I’m supposed to be and I take courage in that. I’m appreciating the green scenery in my home state much more after living in the high desert. And I’ve realized I’m more of an introvert than I used to be, but I really enjoyed living with three other gals and living “in community” on the compound (it even feels a bit like a hippie commune sometimes! But I love how we all pitch in and help each other).

So that’s where I’m at. Still processing. Unwinding. Relaxing. But trying to also accomplish some things too to keep me on track (and keep me from becoming a couch potato for the summer). Of course that’ll be easier when I take a grad class later this summer, but for now I’m excited to help friends and family around here, and enjoy summer (I know, it’s only spring here still, but it feels like summer since I’m out of school!).

I’ll post some pics from Bahrain just for fun:

Architecture in Bahrain, by one of the city gardens

Architecture in Bahrain, by one of the city gardens

World Trade Center in Bahrain

World Trade Center in Bahrain

Bahrain skyline by the Persian Gulf

Bahrain skyline by the Persian Gulf

Dipping my feet into a man-made harbor by the Persian Gulf

Dipping my feet into a man-made harbor by the Persian Gulf

The "Tree of Life" - a few hundred year old tree in the middle of the desert island

The “Tree of Life” – a few hundred year old tree in the middle of the desert island

The Bahrain Fort - a few hundred-year-old fortress

The Bahrain Fort – a few hundred-year-old fortress

Bridge over the moat at the Bahrain Fort

Bridge over the moat at the Bahrain Fort

Love the Middle-Eastern archways at the Fort

Love the Middle-Eastern archways at the Fort

Pottery "sculpture" at A'Ali, a city famous for centuries of pottery-making

Pottery “sculpture” at A’Ali, a city famous for centuries of pottery-making

Ancient burial mounds in A'Ali

Ancient burial mounds in A’Ali

 

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