My Trips and Tips

Life abroad and adventures from my younger days, trips with my new family, travel tips, and other fun. Includes Christmas newsletters because when I was a teacher, that’s when I had time to write about the year’s travels. To see just the posts from when I lived abroad or just the posts for travel with kids, use a cell phone and scroll to the very bottom to access those two sub-categories.

2017 in Review: Milestones and Mid-Life-List Memories

2017 was a year. They all are, aren’t they? But it was really quite a year. I turned 40 this year, and was determined to do it well. So I went through my mental bucket list, and of the things I hadn’t done yet, I made a note of which ones I really wanted to do before I turned 40. And did them, for the most part. They were fun! But a lot of the joy I’ve had this year was in the little things, as I reported in my last post. That being said, it’s time to review the big things.

Last year I started exploring some areas of Oregon I’d always wanted to see, like the John Day Fossil Beds National Monument, and adventuring in the Madras area with my friend Tracy who lived there. I also made new memories by revisiting Yosemite National Park with a sweet friend Keri that I’d met in Europe. This year I bought an annual National Park Pass. I think I barely broke even on the cost of it, but it was worth it to have the freedom to stop at any national park I wanted to!

I started in early June with Crater Lake National Park, which of course as an Oregonian I’ve seen many times. But this time it was with my friend Cindy, whom I worked with in Central Asia. She flew out from Colorado to visit and timed it with our friend Katie’s day-long layover in Portland. It was great to share my home state with these two! I’d been to visit Cindy in Colorado a couple years earlier, so it was a blast to be the host this time. When school got out, I went to the east side of Lake Washington for a training for work. I got to hang out with my grad school friend Mimi and eat a fancy dinner upstairs in a restaurant overlooking the waterfront. I also got to catch up with my high school youth group friend Jamie on that trip. Pictured below: Cindy and I put our feet up and relaxed by the Crater Lake Lodge overlooking the sapphire-blue lake.

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Then in July, I drove my friend Jessica’s kids through the northeast corner of Oregon to their house in Montana and vacationed with them all there. On the way, the kids and I saw the ruts of the Oregon Trail wagons near Baker City and stopped at Chief Joseph’s grave in the Wallowas. Then we drove along the Lewis & Clark Trail in Idaho, and finally reached their home near the Continental Divide in Montana just in time to set off a few fireworks for Independence Day. Jessica and the kids and I went to the north and east sides of Yellowstone and into the Grand Tetons, and later on a separate trip to Glacier National Park. I got to visit my high school friend Debbie on the east side of Glacier, too. All the parks were amazing. We’d all been to Yellowstone before so we skipped the geysers and saw the more remote parts of the park. The Grand Tetons make even a preschooler with an instant camera look like a professional photographer. I describe Glacier as the love-child of Yosemite and Zion National Parks. Maybe even more beautiful than both of them. Glacier fulfilled some of my bucket list dreams: seeing mountain goats in the wild and vast meadows of alpine wildflowers. Between these three parks, I think we experienced all the soul of the Rockies (if Rocky Mountain National Park in Colorado is the “heart” of them)! I saw more waterfalls, alpine lakes, and wildlife than I could keep track of. The first two days in Glacier had some very weak but cooling thunderstorms that unfortunately conditioned me for the summer to not be afraid of them. Bumming around the historical mining city of Butte was fun, too. We even took in a little bit of the renowned Montana Folk Festival there. We also did a day trip to Great Falls, which had some great sights along the way. Glacier was actually the last thing we did, and after I spent the day with Debbie in Many Glacier, I drove along the outside edge of the park and headed home, after stopping for lunch in the historic lodge at East Glacier Park. I stayed the night in Spokane and went home from there, back to my kitty Arwen. It was such an amazing trip! Oh, and Jessica’s family bought me my own mountain goat! IMG_5067 Doesn’t Celeborn the Stuffed Goat look real? But the best part was just getting to spend time with them all. Jessica is one of the truest friends I’ve ever had, and it was wonderful to enjoy some of God’s most beautiful creation with her.

My next big trip this year was to the Southwest. I drove with two of my Salem writer friends Diana and Debby through California (with a pit stop at Burney Falls, which was even more spectacular than my childhood postcard collection showed) to a faith-based fantasy/sci-fi writers conference in Reno, where we met up with another writer friend Tracy and her artist husband Denny. I went with the latter two to Virginia City, and with Denny I went to downtown Reno while the others had a conference session to go to (I only paid for a guest conference fee instead of the whole fee). I had agreed to go to this conference for several reasons: getting to spend time with my writer friends who had been such a support for me through my divorce in Salem, getting to learn about writing with a focus on fantasy/sci-fi, and last but not least, my first cosplay experience (also on my bucket list). Oh, and a nerf gun war. That was never on a bucket list of mine, but would have been if I’d thought of it. The conference exceeded all my expectations, mainly because the keynote speaker, Ted Dekker, spoke right to my soul. It was as if Jesus was right there telling me He loves me and has great plans for me. It wasn’t just what the speaker was saying. It was something much deeper that I can’t explain. I just felt it in my soul.

 

But the conference was only the first part of that trip. From Reno, my friends all went on vacations with their husbands who met them there, and I met up with my friend Jas who was there visiting a friend. We drove to her house in Phoenix, stopping for some fun adventures along the way. (We pause this blog post for a brief announcement: it is midnight and fireworks are sounding off all around me with neighbors shouting “Happy New Year!”). While driving nearly the entire length of Nevada, we stopped at a gimmicky store by Area 51 and got pictures of us as aliens. We stayed the night in a suburb of Las Vegas where our high school friend Katie (who did the best rendition of Fruma Sarah in our production of Fiddler on the Roof) lives with her family. It was great to reconnect! Then we took a detour on the last leg to Phoenix so we could see the London Bridge. Yup, the one from the song, that is no longer in England but is in southwest Arizona. It’s a small world! There was even a British couple visiting in the little tourist “English city” below the bridge. Once we rested up in Phoenix, we spent the day north of there, exploring some Native American cliff dwellings and Sedona. Montezuma’s Castle and Montezuma’s Well National Monuments are misnamed, of course, but still fascinating to see! And Sedona… well, we’ll just say that it lives up to all the hype, and then some. I actually liked Sedona much more than Moab (granted, I only got to drive through Moab briefly on my way through later this trip). We drove through the rock formations and visited the serene Chapel of the Holy Cross, and ate Chinese food. Then we hiked up Bell Rock, which is supposed to be one of the best “vortex” spots. Well, I couldn’t feel any more special energy than what I felt with the storm that rolled in. And learned the hard way that storms in Arizona are not to be taken lightly. We kept saying “We should probably head down now… ooh, look! Double rainbow!” as the storm rolled in quietly. Then the heavens opened up and dumped right on us. We had to run and slide down the rock, which became a giant waterslide from flash floods (Hey! Seeing a flash flood was kind of a secret bucket list wish!), trying to stay low to the ground because the lightning was right on top of us, too. At last we made it to the trailhead, where a concerned local couple was about to head up to find us. We sat out the rest of the storm in my now-drenched car, letting our adrenaline subside. The rest of my stay in the Phoenix area was less eventful but also fun: Jas’ homemade dinner and climbing around the rock formations at Papago Park. Jas and I have been adventuring together since we were in high school, and I’m so grateful we’re still close even though we live in different states!

Now for the last leg of that epic trip. This was my chance to drive some of the famous portions of Route 66, which I’d been wanting to do ever since learning the song in high school jazz choir circles. From Jas’ house, I went north to Flagstaff, and then east on I-40, taking Historic Route 66 whenever I could. I didn’t see much that was exciting in Flagstaff or Winona (couldn’t see anything of Winona, but it’s in the song), but the hike in Walnut Canyon National Monument was fantastic. The canyon itself was worth the trip, but there were so many well-preserved cliff dwellings all along the hike that you could even walk into! Then I stopped in Winslow, which had a great visitor’s center with free stuff, including a Route 66 passport to get stamped along the way. A young businessman and I traded cameras to get photos of ourselves “Standin’ on a Corner” and I got a milkshake at a soda fountain that used to be a bank. Next stop was Holbrook. All I did there was stop at the kitchy Wigwam Hotel, which made me feel like I was in the movie “Cars.” My plan from there was to drive into New Mexico (just to say I did) and then double-back in the morning for Monument Valley, but the last big stop in Arizona’s Route 66 was Petrified Forest National Park. I’d meant to only stop there briefly, but I was taken aback by this gem in the National Park system. I ended up hiking to the valley floor from the historic inn in the Painted Desert. I sat overlooking the vast expanse ahead of me, of stark, colorful desert. Never had a felt so wonderfully alone in the universe, with only God’s presence (and a wild hare) to keep me company. And I was prepared to be disappointed that I didn’t have time to drive down to the petrified wood portion of the park, but there was quite a lot of it in this section! Breathtaking. So I didn’t get as far into New Mexico as I’d hoped. I stayed the night in my car in the parking lot of the Gallup Walmart to save money. From there, I drove north to Shiprock, taking in the sunrise and and Navajo people alongside the road. I ate breakfast at a local fast-food joint that served Indian breakfast tacos along with the usual fast-food fare, and I was the only non-Native person in there. It was all older folks, meeting up with friends for coffee and good conversation. Then I drove up into the Four Corners region of Colorado. I thought I had time to see the cliff dwellings at Mesa Verde, but only got partway through the park. I was on a schedule: to get to my cousin’s house in the Salt Lake City area for dinner. So I doubled back and drove into Utah. I stopped in Arches National Park for literally 15 minutes, which was much more interesting than the hour I spent in Mesa Verde not getting to the cliff dwellings. I didn’t see any arches, but the rock formations were great, and I had gotten out earlier to climb up the roadside Winslow Arch. I got to my cousin Julie’s house almost on time, and had a wonderful dinner and drinks there. It was great to connect with her because I’d never really gotten to know her, since she’s from Nebraska. She recommended that I stop at Shoshone Falls in Idaho on the way home, which was well worth the trip.

 

This year brought a couple more big bucket-list items: my first complete solar eclipse and my first tattoo. I experienced “The Great American Eclipse” event by going up to Woodburn with my cousins Eric and Chrissy, staying the night in Hubbard with my stepsister Tammy and her family, and watching the actual eclipse in Gervais with my friend Karen AND  MY BEST FRIEND TIM  (her husband; inside joke) and their daughter. Then my friend Sarah got a tattoo for my 40th birthday. Actually I got two: a real one (a compass rose, of course) on my upper arm and some added freckles to make the Orion the Hunter constellation on my wrist. Also for my birthday, I got to see my first professional soccer game! Mom took me to see the Portland Thorns, the women’s sister team to the Timbers. It was a blast! We got to watch part of it with my friend Holli and her family, and the Thorns won! Mom also took me to a Ducks v. Cornhuskers (American) football game because her friend that was supposed to go got sick. Pictured below: the Eclipse! Note that Arwen didn’t come with me to see the eclipse; I just had to get a pic of her wearing my eclipse glasses that I got at Yellowstone.

I also did a lot of other fun things this year, like hiking all the Ridgeline Trails in South Eugene, biking all the way across town along the river bike trail, going to Wildlife Safari with my cousins, spending time with my relatives that came to visit, hiking to Belknap Crater (a really cool little volcano) at the top of Old McKenzie Pass with my friend Tracey, and hiking Sweet Creek Falls trail with my mom. I also did some fun Eugene traditions like going to the Scandinavian Festival with my friend Charli and her family (their first time) the Lane County Fair with my mom and brother, and waterfall day hikes with my friend Rachel (the first one was quite a misadventure but we made it fun!). This fall and winter holiday season have also been fun, including a “German Christmas Day” in Mt. Angel and a Christmas Market with my friend Rainie who used to live in Germany, visiting and hosting family, and playing in the snow with Jessica and her family when they came to Oregon for Christmas. Oh hey, I had one more bucket list adventure there! We met up at Diamond Lake to go tubing in the snowy hills, and I walked a little ways out onto the frozen lake! So cool! I’m sure I’m near WordPress’ photo limit so these fun adventures just get mentioned, but I’ll try to post pics of them sometime. At least on Facebook.

Pretty sure this is my longest blog post ever, but it was an epic year. Hey, you only turn 40 once, and I figured I might as well have fun with my mid-life crisis. Many of my friends are turning 40 this year too, and it’s been great to celebrate this milestone with them! Happy New Year! This next year will much much more mellow (as I save up for some big goals and work to pay off debt), but hopefully just as fun with friends and family.

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Christmas Update 2016

Hello out there in blog-reader-land! I know it’s been a while. Frankly, I’m shocked that WordPress hasn’t canceled my blog. But it still exists, so I may as well use it! Here’s the latest in the chronicles of my adventures.

My last couple posts were written when I had just started working at the military school in the Oregon town I grew up in. I meant to write at least a Christmas newsletter last year, but settled for posting photos from the whole year on my Facebook page. I’ll probably do that again, because I don’t want to share very personal photos for the whole world to see. But I’ll also try to catch everyone up here today.

As for work (school), I decided to stay at the military academy. That first spring, I taught remedial 9th grade math and English. The next school year, I taught 9th/10th grade social studies, remedial 9th grade math, and a journalism elective class. Sadly, this school year’s schedule didn’t allow me to keep the journalism class. But I’m still teaching 9th, 10th, and now 11th grade social studies, as well as a credit recovery class in the computer lab which allows me to tutor the students in math and other subjects from their online recovery courses. It’s been neat to watch the students grow up from squirrely freshmen and sophomores to (somewhat!) mature juniors and seniors. I’ve learned a lot about military lifestyle and experiences from the school and my coworkers. I can safely say I appreciate the service and sacrifice of veterans more now. And there are some fun experiences I wouldn’t have in other schools, like learning to march correctly to a cadence for local parades, and FTX (our military-style version of outdoors school). I love FTX! We hold it in the late spring at a Boy Scout camp, and I’ve had a great time camping out with the 9th grade girls both years. This fall, I got to see my students in action as we volunteered at the local Highland Games. It rained on us, but the kids had great attitudes, and got accolades from all the vendors and festival organizers! I feel very blessed to get to know the students and grow in friendships with my coworkers at this school. I will always miss my ISK (my school in Central Asia) coworkers and students, but I’m thankful for Facebook and email to keep in touch with most of them.

Of course, I’ve done a bit of traveling since I last wrote, too. After seeing my ISK coworkers (and my awesome Uncle Gary and Aunt Kathy and friend Jas) in Pennsylvania in February 2015, I used my airline miles and credit to attend weddings of my coworkers from overseas. The first was in Florida in May, for my friends Kristin and Nathan, who now teach in SE Asia. The next two weddings were in Michigan in June. It was a blessing to see all of them get married, and get to catch up with my ISK family each time! And fun to sightsee with them, like beach time on Lake Michigan and shopping in Amish country with my 2nd ISK principal. My other big trip that year was a drive to Seattle to visit my grad school friend Mimi, with a side trip to Vancouver BC to see a friend I had known from the expat community in Central Asia.

This year (2016) has also brought some fun journeys. In the spring, I got to visit my ISK friend Cindy in Colorado, although it was still winter there! Beautiful, though. We saw Garden of the Gods and some mountain towns near Boulder. For spring break and again after school ended for the summer, I got to house-sit for and visit friends Tracey and her husband Jay, who worked at my current school my first year, and who live in lovely Central Oregon. Together we hiked in the snow on Mt. Hood, drove up the Deschutes River, and hunted for geodes (aka Thundereggs; round rocks filled inside with crystal) at Richardson Rock Ranch. On my own, I used their house as a base camp to go see the John Day Fossil Beds National Monument. I hiked all three sites in one day. Breathtaking vistas, ancient fossils, and amazing rock formations made the drive so worth it! Later this last summer, I drove to California to meet up with a Czech friend that I met in Prague. She had never been to Yosemite, and I happily agreed to take her there. The last time I had gone was in winter, which was beautiful, but limited the places to go. So Keri and I got to hike to Vernal Fall, and drive to Glacier Point, which was probably one of the most epic views I have ever seen. And that says a lot, because I’ve been blessed to see some amazing ones in this world. I’ll try to include photos. I also got to visit my friend Elly in San Francisco (she’s much closer than the first time I visited her in her home country of Germany!), and drive back through Napa Valley and the Redwoods coast. Later in the summer, Jas came out from Pennsylvania for her family reunion, and I got to go up to Central Washington state for it with her and her aunt and uncle. I love summer!

As far as writing goes, I haven’t done any of my own (unless lesson plans count). But I have had some of my students participate in National Novel Writing Month, so at least I’m helping pass on a literary tradition. One of my writer friends is now publishing a novel for the first time, so be sure to watch for Calliope Jones books on Amazon soon! They’re great!

I’ve had some fun times with family this year, too. My mom and I met up with my stepsister and her teenage daughter to enjoy the crowds, I mean the tulips, at the Woodburn Wooden Shoe Festival. My brother made me an epic wall decor piece in the shape of a medallion from a cartoon we watched as kids. I’ve also enjoyed spending time with one set of cousins while I lived with her mother-in-law (and now have my own cute apartment! Many thanks to the wonderful people who let me live with them before that!), and am attending a church now where another set goes. In sadder news, I had three aunts pass away this least year or so, and one cousin just two days ago. I’m grateful that I had gotten to see two of them not too long before they died. Before my mom left to be with her brother, she and my stepdad had an impromptu Christmas breakfast/coffee with my brother and me. We’ll get to have a fun dinner on Christmas Eve with my dad and my stepmom, too. I’m so thankful for the family I have. And friends in this community that I grew up in but hadn’t lived in as an adult (old friends, friends from my new school, new friends from the church I went to last year, and new friends from my new church). And for my thoughtful boyfriend, too. (Just had to slip that in there to leave you all wondering!)

Well, I think that about sums up a lot, at least what I’m willing to share publicly. Thank you all for your friendship and support over the years! I hope you all are doing well and enjoying the holidays.

Merry Christmas!

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Back in the USA

Hello, world!

I have some exciting news for the literary fans out there, that allows me to brag on a friend. But I’ll save that for the next post so it can have a post all to itself. For now, I figure I’d better update those of you who aren’t on Facebook (or who are, but read my blog and wonder where I am now).

Since my last post, I explored a bunch more of Germany (namely Koln and Berlin, as well as a day in Dresden and hiking in Saxon Switzerland), spent way more time in the Czech Republic than I’d planned (which is not a bad thing- I loved it there!), and ended up coming back to the States because it was no longer safe for the school I taught at to be open in its location in Central Asia. It was really sad to not go back there. It was my home for the last couple years, and I miss my students dearly. But life goes on, and so must I.

Soon after I landed in North America, I went to a retreat in Pennsylvania where I got to spend time with my American coworkers, and also got to visit my longtime friend and my aunt and uncle in Gettysburg. My friend took me to Baltimore, and we explored more historical sites there.

This last week I began subbing in one of the school districts I used to work in as an instructional assistant before I got my teaching license. And tomorrow I begin working at a new school for the rest of this school year. I’m very thankful for these opportunities! And very excited.

Well, that’s all for now, but I wanted to update any of you who hadn’t caught up with me already on Facebook or email. I think for now I’ll just post a photo of Saxon Switzerland, because you’ve all probably seen photos of the rest of the places I went, but may not have heard of that scenic little corner of Eastern Germany. Enjoy! And happy travels, whether it’s to somewhere historical, exotic, relaxing, or a nice walk in the evening sunshine.

Saxon Switzerland

Saxon Switzerland

Bastei Bridge

Bastei Bridge

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Christmas Newsletter 2014

Hello friends and family,

I’m obviously not using my blog much anymore, but I thought I’d use it at least to write my Christmas newsletter this year. Especially since I’m not home to mail it out to anyone. So, without further adieu, Merry Christmas from Germany!

2014 has been an amazing year. Very difficult in many ways. But I have learned a lot about teaching, myself, and life itself. I have grown and matured in some ways, and (I hope) my faith is deeper than it was before. And yes, according to Christmas newsletter tradition, I’ll brag for a bit that I’ve been to some of the most amazing places on Earth this year!

Since I last wrote from Bahrain, I spent a fun summer reconnecting with friends and family in the States. There I travelled to California and Utah to visit good friends and got to hike on the Central California coast, camped in Montana, and saw geology at work in the geysers of Yellowstone and the dramatic canyon of Zion National Park. I also spent lovely time with friends and family at the Southern Oregon coastline and other lovely Oregon sights.

This fall, while living again in Central Asia, I visited friends in Qatar and enjoyed exploring ruins and the beach there for the Eid holiday. I also flew with friends to Bamiyan and saw where the giant Buddhas once stood, and hiked to an ancient fort that was attacked by Genghis Khan. (Yeah, pretty amazing! This history nerd was beyond giddy.)

And now I’m in Europe. My friend and I flew into Prague and enjoyed the Christmas market in the Old Town there. We’ve been staying since with a friend in Germany and taking in the culture and scenery here. Today we visited the city where my parents were stationed, and I lived the first three months of my life. It was lovely! And happens to be the birthplace of the Brothers Grimm. Yep, that must be why I love fairy tales so much.

As for teaching, this new year has been challenging but incredibly fun. Geometry is my most challenging class content-wise. Proofs and justifications are just as difficult as they were when I was in high school! And teaching 10th graders just doesn’t come as naturally to me as the middle-school age. But now we’re into the triangles unit, and having more fun with that. This year, my one non-math class is history, which is blessedly within my content areas that I’m licensed for (8th grade science was crazy hard last year!). So I’m teaching 8th grade U.S. History to Central Asian kids. Definitely a challenge, but a fun one! These kids are really intrigued by American history, so it’s been a lot of fun to teach them. They ask excellent discussion questions and are getting really good at seeing the history from different perspectives, which was one of my goals. My 7th and 8th grade math classes have been a lot of fun, too. Behavior is definitely the biggest challenge there, but I adore them.

Those of you who know where I teach specifically can guess that it’s been a difficult year based on the news you may have seen. It has been hard. But I love the people there and the culture and especially the kids, and it has been a blessing to be there with them in hard times.

Well, that’s pretty much 2014 in a nutshell (that’s an American idiom; I find myself explaining idioms a lot to my students this year!). I sincerely hope that you have all had a wonderful year, will have a wonderful Christmas, and a happy New Year.

Santa Barbara

Santa Barbara

Yellowstone Falls

Yellowstone Falls

Ruins on the Persian Gulf

Ruins on the Persian Gulf

Red Fort

Red Fort

Old Town Prague

Old Town Prague

Merry Christmas from Heidelberg Castle

Merry Christmas from Heidelberg Castle

Christmas Market in Gengebach

Christmas Market in Gengenbach

Kaiserslautern

Kaiserslautern

The Brothers Grimm in my first hometown

The Brothers Grimm in my first hometown

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Unwind

I’ve always been a somewhat tightly wound personality, and presumably am even more so when teaching. Even when I was an instructional assistant, it took me about a week into summer to unwind and relax. Now with all the intense experiences I had this last school year plus cultural transition back into Western society and family life, I’ve been trying to be more intentional about the debreifing/unwinding (and I’d have said “decompressing” but looked it up and it’s a fairly technical diving term) process. But I don’t want to slip into a depression from feeling purposeless in the summer, so I’ve also tried to be intentional about volunteering my time and services for the benefit of the local community.

So here’s where I’m at and what I’ve been doing with my time. My last post was written while I was on a somewhat spur-of-the-moment “Transition Vacation” in Bahrain. It’s a nice island kingdom in the Middle East, which has the religious culture I’m used to in Central Asia, but is a little more Westernized and touristy, so I could relax a bit (didn’t have to wear a head covering in the street), see the sights, and wander the city safely. It was great. I don’t think I thought about very much the whole time. Just let my brain rest and enjoy life.

Now I’ve been back in the States for a week. I’ve spent some time with family (and am looking forward to lots more time throughout the summer), helped out with yardwork at my mom’s house, been a cabin leader for a kids’ retreat at the camp I worked at as a teen/college student, helped make props for the local university’s production of Alice in Wonderland, took the dog for a nice quiet day at the coast, nearly caught up on Once Upon a Time episodes, and ridden mom’s bike around the lake and river areas here. And of course worked on some personal things, including getting set up for some official debriefing/counseling.

All that sounds like a lot, but don’t worry, I’ve had plenty of time sitting around the house and reading (or playing on Facebook). Not sure how much it’s all helping, but I don’t feel like I’ve been stuck in the “funk” I felt during Christmas vacation here. I feel a lot more balanced. And I’m sure the counselor will help me debrief some of the experiences of the school year in Central Asia.

I’ve had some time to reflect on some of the ways I’ve changed this year. My focus and purpose in life is changing. I’m working on becoming less self-centered (so I feel a bit strange writing blog posts that are all about me, but I guess it’s part of the processing experience and people keep asking me how I am so I guess it’s okay).  I’ve changed in some funny ways too: Because Wii “Just Dance” is one of our favorite forms of entertainment on the compound, I’ve found myself listening to the pop stations much more than usual in my car and caught myself singing and dancing along with a One Direction song (this rock ‘n’ roller has never liked boy bands!). From where I’ve been living, I feel like I’m more brave but also more paranoid. I really can’t answer the question “Do you feel safe there?” yet. But I know I’m teaching where I’m supposed to be and I take courage in that. I’m appreciating the green scenery in my home state much more after living in the high desert. And I’ve realized I’m more of an introvert than I used to be, but I really enjoyed living with three other gals and living “in community” on the compound (it even feels a bit like a hippie commune sometimes! But I love how we all pitch in and help each other).

So that’s where I’m at. Still processing. Unwinding. Relaxing. But trying to also accomplish some things too to keep me on track (and keep me from becoming a couch potato for the summer). Of course that’ll be easier when I take a grad class later this summer, but for now I’m excited to help friends and family around here, and enjoy summer (I know, it’s only spring here still, but it feels like summer since I’m out of school!).

I’ll post some pics from Bahrain just for fun:

Architecture in Bahrain, by one of the city gardens

Architecture in Bahrain, by one of the city gardens

World Trade Center in Bahrain

World Trade Center in Bahrain

Bahrain skyline by the Persian Gulf

Bahrain skyline by the Persian Gulf

Dipping my feet into a man-made harbor by the Persian Gulf

Dipping my feet into a man-made harbor by the Persian Gulf

The "Tree of Life" - a few hundred year old tree in the middle of the desert island

The “Tree of Life” – a few hundred year old tree in the middle of the desert island

The Bahrain Fort - a few hundred-year-old fortress

The Bahrain Fort – a few hundred-year-old fortress

Bridge over the moat at the Bahrain Fort

Bridge over the moat at the Bahrain Fort

Love the Middle-Eastern archways at the Fort

Love the Middle-Eastern archways at the Fort

Pottery "sculpture" at A'Ali, a city famous for centuries of pottery-making

Pottery “sculpture” at A’Ali, a city famous for centuries of pottery-making

Ancient burial mounds in A'Ali

Ancient burial mounds in A’Ali

 

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School’s Out for the Summer!

Greetings from the Middle East! Wait, you ask, why aren’t you still teaching in Central Asia?

Due to circumstances and events in the city, we let out school yet another week early. So April 30 was our last teaching day. A few (mostly the engaged ones with fiancées back home) left for the US as soon as they could earlier this week. The rest of us staggered our flights out of the country and opted to not pay extra to change our transatlantic flights yet again. Instead, we found places nearby to stay and have adventures while we decompress and debrief the year. I decided to visit a grad school friend in the Persian Gulf.

Before I tell you about Bahrain, I’ll let you know that I’ll be mentally/emotionally processing the end of the school year in Central Asia for a while. Probably bits and pieces will come out in my conversations, speaking opportunities, journaling, blogging, and  newsletter writing.  It was a crazy time period for us at our school. Between some crazy events in the city, life went on in our school. We hosted a school of children in poverty for our “Week Without Walls,” (aka WWW) where our secondary students taught the kids fun science, English, and other lessons day-camp style, and everyone who attends/works at the school contributed to a mural (pictured). Our soccer team competed in Turkey and had a great time (and brought us back Krispy Kremes).

My algebra class was struggling with both grades and behavior, but thanks to some helpful lesson plan intervention from the science teacher (who is also our mentor teacher and currently interim principal), the last few weeks of class were fantastic. I was able to finish strong with all my classes, even with the shortened schedule. That was such a huge blessing! Especially since I’ll have the 9th graders again next year for geometry. I’ll also have regular 7th & 8th grade math classes, 7th/8th grade math foundations, and 8th grade American history. I’m really excited for that last one because I haven’t taught history since student teaching in grad school, and I don’t want to forget how. I’m very excited for next year!

So anyway, back to the Persian Gulf…  It is lovely here.  The weather is warm and muggy but not unbearable. Where I’m staying is an interesting mix of Middle Eastern and Western culture, with centuries-old fortresses and a spaceship-shaped Starbucks. I’m excited to explore more!

With that, I’ll leave you all to your summers. What’s that? It’s not summer in the States yet? Well, as difficult as it was to end the school year early, I won’t complain about having some extra weeks since I’ll be returning to Central Asia in early-mid August (which means I’ll miss the Scandinavian Festival and our family reunion again, bummer!). And I’ll enjoy having more time to visit all of you. Take care! And I’ll see you soon, America! (aka “Amrika” in my part of the world- love it!)

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Hope

Hope is an incredible thing. It inspires, encourages, and can bring new life.

Today was a very important day in the country I’m in right now. The people here needed hope to take action today, especially the women, who have been more than marginalized the last few decades. Because for the past week, a certain group of people has been taking action to discourage the people of this country. But the people still took action, even through a pretty mighty storm. This says a lot about a country that has been through a lot. Certainly there’s fear, and if not fear, at least cynicism. But there is still hope. And where there is hope, there is potential for a bright future.

For me personally, this last week has been teaching me a lot about hope. There has certainly been reason to fear. But so many things have happened to remind me that there is also reason to hope. Hope for protection. Hope for peace. And hope for a bright future. I am so thankful for this, because I’m usually very susceptible to fear, cynicism, and even disillusionment. And then I become a depressing, hurtful person, who is unwilling to take a chance. Certainly my students don’t need a teacher like that. So for them and others, I choose hope.

So please join me in having hope. Personally, and for the world as well. And right now, especially for this beautiful country that I’m in. The people have taken action. Now we’ll wait and see the outcome.

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Spring Break Retreat

Spring break in the compound: brings new meaning to the term “stay-cation.” This year for spring break, I decided to stay here to save money and relax (and have the house to myself, aside from the maids. Yeah, it’s a rough life…). Most of my friends went to exciting places like Qatar, Sri Lanka, Rome, and Greece. It would have been great fun to join them. But my English teacher friend and I both decided to stay here, along with the Spanish teacher and his wife, our current director, the new director for next year, and the financial director. And even though we had to stay on the compound most of the time (we managed to go to the grocery store and to another teacher’s house off-campus for dinner), we had fun.

Those of us staying here traded off some dinners so no one had to cook for themselves every night. Us gals made build-your-own pizzas one night, the directors each made a pasta dinner, the financial director made chili, and I made enchiladas tonight. Amazing how much more I like cooking when I’m relaxed on vacation! The new director also hosted a “Second breakfast tea party” one morning with doughnuts and tea (yes, there’s a bakery here where we can get doughnuts! And yes, men can host tea parties).

Since I was staying, I volunteered to take care of my coworkers’ pets. I’ll be sure to include some pics of my furry friends for the week. Dusty the dog is fun. I take her out to the basketball court, block up the exits, and let her run free while I jog around the court or read a book in the sunshine. She also likes to cuddle and get tummy rubs. The neighbor boys (there are a couple local families that happen to live within our compound) always begged me to “bring dog” to play, so a couple times I let Dusty loose in the soccer or b-ball court and let the kids play fetch with her. Many people here are afraid of dogs, so it was fun to see the boys gently pet her and enjoy playing with her. The cats Creamy, Alice, are Little Chicken were also fun to cuddle and play with. I love the names my coworkers come up with for cats! I had to rescue a Justin Bieber Christmas tree ornament from Little Chicken a few times, and discovered that Creamy likes getting brushed, while Alice likes to play with the cat brush. I also got a pic of Alice’s wild sibling up in a tree.

I don’t know much of the local language, and the maids don’t know much English, but I got to “talk” some to our main maid this week since I was home all day. We practiced vocabulary in each other’s language using objects in the room, photos from my book about Oregon, and photos of our families. She showed me photos on her phone of her daughters and her daughter’s artwork. Later, I was making lunch, so I made enough for her (the people here are famous for their hospitality, so I’d have felt awkward eating in front of her). Even though we couldn’t hold much of a conversation, it was really neat to eat with her.

The English teacher and I hosted a party for our girl students. Only two girls came, but they’re quiet in my classes at least, so it was really nice to get to know them more. Both of them have mothers who work to help the situation of women in need here. Some of the stories they told about the women they’ve helped were incredible.

So while I don’t have exotic photos this time like I did on my trip to Uganda last fall, I did get to relax, get to know a few of my coworkers more, have fun with the locals, and catch up on personal stuff like taxes and registering for a grad class to keep up my teaching license. I’m so glad I stayed. I might stay again on future vacations, if only I didn’t have a long list of places I dream of seeing and people to visit around the world! We’ll see what happens!

Full moon over k-town

Full moon over k-town

Creamy and Alice

Creamy and Alice

Dusty the dog

Dusty the dog

"Wildlife" in k-town

“Wildlife” in k-town

Little Chicken

Little Chicken

 

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Happy International Women’s Day!

Happy Women’s Day!

My blog originally set out to chronicle the journeys of women, and gets commandeered to chronicle my own journey when I’m abroad. So I want to take this opportunity to celebrate women around the world.

I hadn’t heard of this holiday in the States, but it’s somewhat of a big deal here in Central Asia. I had several of my students wish me a happy day for it, and my employer bought all us women on staff flowers and an umbrella. But that’s not why I’m appreciating International Women’s Day here.

First and most selfishly, I suppose I’m enjoying it because I’m a nearly middle-age divorced woman with no children, who gets depressed every year around Mother’s Day. I always feel sad that day, and only enjoy the day once I remind myself that I have a wonderful mother, step-mother, and former mother-in-law that I am grateful for, and then I celebrate them instead of thinking it’s all about me. But I have to admit, it’s nice to be celebrated just for being a woman. And I consider myself very blessed to have many children in my life: my students, my friends’ children, etc.

However, that’s not really why it’s a big deal here. They don’t celebrate Mother’s Day here, and in this part of the world, most women are mothers. So why is it a big deal here? Last week some people came from a university to speak to the kids about it, but it wasn’t really clear what they were trying to say about it. As I chatted with one of the upperclassmen students today, she reminded me that it’s an important day here because of what the women have been through in the last 30 years in this country. Things are much better for women now, but there is still inequality.

I’m reminded of this every time my middle school boys tell me they went to the water park over the weekend (and I pretend to glare at them and say “Don’t tell me about that- it sounds like fun and I’m not allowed to go because I’m a woman.”) But many people here know that women are worth as much as men, and are trying to make things better. Sometimes only in small ways, but they make a difference. A few weeks ago a local man who works at my school opened a door for me, and said “Ladies first.” Back in the States, that’s not really a big deal for me. Some might even consider it chauvinistic. But here, I felt very honored, knowing how women were treated for many years.

The women here are amazingly strong. They work hard, and have hope for the future. My girl students have big dreams for their careers. Some of my students have mothers who are doctors and other highly educated professions. (One of the high school boys, when that small class was analyzing data that showed that in the USA men still earn more money than women, tried to explain it by saying men are smarter than women, but his own mother is a surgeon! I let the girl in that class have the last word that day.) The women here believe in a future here that will continue to become brighter and brighter.

So to all the women out there, especially those who, like the women of this country, have overcome trials and adversity, Happy Women’s Day. You are special. You have worth. And you have something amazing to offer this world. Don’t ever let anyone convince you otherwise.

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Happy Birthday Oregon! (From the other side of the world)

 

View from Spencer's Butte hiking trail

View from Spencer’s Butte hiking trail

 

In the scarf factory, drinking my tea

In the scarf factory, drinking my tea

Well, hello! I know, I know. This year has flown by, and I’ve done very few blog posts or newsletters. Not even a Christmas newsletter for 2013 or New Years 2014. I meant to do a mid-year (school year) post at the end of the 1st semester, and that came and went as well. But I definitely want to write before winter is over. And we are on the second day of a three day weekend thanks to a local holiday. So here I am, on Valentine’s Day, wishing my home state a happy birthday, and wishing my loved ones a happy day.

Oregon, my Oregon! (That’s the official state song, by the way; I think I had to learn it in 4th grade in the UofO children’s choir). I got to visit friends and family in Oregon for the winter break. I attended a backyard campfire one sunny afternoon, went horseback riding at the coast with a close friend, and hiked up Spencer’s Butte with my dad, but that’s about all I experienced of Oregon’s scenery. Over the holiday, I also got to fly to Pennsylvania and visit friends and family there and in Ohio. Both are lovely states. In Pittsburgh, I rode the Duquesne Incline, and toured the gothic Cathedral of Learning. My friends and I also toured a couple of Frank Lloyd Wright homes, and got the grand tour of Gettysburg from my uncle and aunt. In Ohio, I got treated to delicious food and Jungle Jim’s, which is kind of like the Rainforest Café of grocery stores. I love visiting new states. The USA has so much to offer! But Oregon will always be my home state.

What I miss most there is the waterfalls. They don’t have many waterfalls here.  I’m guessing there are some up in the mountains, at least in the spring. Ah, the mountains. Now those, I don’t miss as much. Oregon has fantastic volcano mountains, and my middle schoolers love seeing pictures of those. But here the city is completely ringed in high rugged mountains, made even more epic this time of year with the snow. I go up on top of the high school building sometimes and sit, mesmerized by the mountains and warmed by the sun on my face.

I miss the children of Oregon. My friends’ kids, the youth group kids, and the students at the schools I worked at and student-taught at. But I am grateful to have great students here, too. They drive me crazy sometimes. There’s plenty of attitude, excuses, and whining. But there’s also lots of sweetness. The high school girls tell me I’m pretty, the middle school girls make me holiday cards, the middle school boys stop as they walk by to ask me how my day is going (and write messages on my whiteboard when I’m not looking after class), and the high school boys sing all the time (oh wait, that’s one of the things that drives me crazy, at least when I’m trying to teach). The kids here love music as much as kids in the States do. Two days ago the student council hosted a fundraiser party at lunchtime, and they had dancing. Here, girls can watch boys dance, but not vice-versa, so there was a screen up so the girls could dance. The 8th grade girls dragged me in there to dance local-style. I actually really like the dance-pop music here. Kind of a blend of traditional music with a dance beat. But what I love about the kids most of all is that even though it takes a while to get to know them, once they know you’re sticking around for a while, they open up more and want to get to know you more. It means a lot to them that you want to be here. So I’m really excited to come back next school year.

There are other things about Oregon that I miss, too. The coast. The coffee. The carefree strolls. There are only a couple shops I’m allowed to walk to, and other than that, my walks are limited to circling the basketball court, the badminton court, or the soccer “field” (made out of dust). But the people here make up for it. They are so hospitable and generous. Recently for our student character awards, the theme was “generosity,” and I couldn’t think of any exceptional students to nominate for that, because they’re all so generous. The kids bring food to share communally, and have even offered me some when they’re in my classroom for lunch detention. I’ve written already about visiting the neighbors across the street for lunch and tea. A couple weeks ago, I got to go to a famous old shopping district and visit a scarf shop with a small factory upstairs. It was so cozy, with only a few looms, and fabric draped everywhere, even the ceiling. The shopkeeper offered us tea, and we refused the three required times, and then accepted. And of course, I bought a scarf. Not one of the $75 silk ones that take six weeks to embroider by hand. Maybe someday. But it was a great experience. Everyone here is so giving. Once I stopped by my house on  my lunchbreak and gave our maid a couple pieces of candy, and she gave me some of the naan she was eating for lunch. Then the next day, she brought me a beautiful little embroidered cloth (about the size of a bookmark). The other night, when one of the drivers was driving us gals home from bowling, he cranked up the music and started singing along. He said it was his favorite song, from a Bollywood movie. We asked about the movie, and he said he’d lend it to us. I don’t know if he’ll ever remember to bring it with him, but there is definitely an attitude of sharing here. Even the guards, who are usually very reserved, especially with us females, shared in an epic snowball fight last week. They hid behind the hescoes and waited till one of us peeked around to throw a snowball, and threw one right back at us. Then they charged us all to gain ground. The neighbor kids and the drivers joined in, too, and it was beautiful chaos, everyone against everyone. One of those moments in life that can transcend language, race, religion, tribe, and gender role expectations.

Winter with our expat culture has been fun, too. The staff has been going around singing songs from the Disney movie “Frozen,” especially so the day it snowed. So of course we built a snowman (okay, I came at the end and added a little to the work my coworkers and the neighbor boys had done) while the science teacher played the “Do You Want to Build A Snowman” song on his phone. Oregon has had record snow this year, just not while I was there. So I was glad to get some here! We’ve kept cozy and warm with movie parties, pizza parties, and fairy-tale themed murder mystery parties this winter. My classroom has been cold this last week with the snow, but my bedroom keeps warm with the baby bukhari that was installed late last fall. Sometimes I set my tea on the one in my classroom to keep it warm. We drink lots of tea and hot chocolate here (both readily available, even at our local corner store). Soon I’ll get tired of the cold, and be ready for spring. I’ve heard spring is lovely here. And of course, I’m looking forward to summer in Oregon. I can’t wait to see my friends and family there! And hike Silver Falls, of course! But for now, I’m weathering the winter quite well. And enjoying the time I have with my students and friends here while it lasts.

Do you want to build a snowman?

Do you want to build a snowman?

Snowy trees

Snowy trees in our compound

Battlefield below Little Round Top in Gettysburg

Battlefield below Little Round Top in Gettysburg

At the top of Little Round Top in Gettysburg

At the top of Little Round Top in Gettysburg

View of sunset from the top of Devil's Den in Gettysburg

View of sunset from the top of Devil’s Den in Gettysburg

Duquesne Incline in Pittsburgh, looking down while riding up

Duquesne Incline in Pittsburgh, looking down while riding up

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